How comfortable is too comfortable???? I have a VERY close friend of mine, who has been with her boo for about... I don't know.. let's say 6 - 8 months... and they spend A LOT of time together. So one night, she's at his house (they spend almost EVERY night together), she gets ready for bed and the regimin starts... shower, lotion, scarf (for the hair) removes contacts and replaces with glasses.. u know for reading and watching tv.. and then gets in the bed. Her boyfriend comes into the room, stops short, and says "What do I do to get ugly for u???"
WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
My friend LUV'D all of the commentary!.. U guys r the best. N guess what.. she has stepped her game up.. she's changing the glasses (YES.. THEY WERE VERY THICK.. kinda like Raj haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.. thx ev. She's working on the scarf.. EXTREMELY HARD TO GIVE UP.. isn't it true ladies! I remember a dude who saw me wit my scarf when I was going to bed n he was like.. "Um I don't like that".. Yep, I immediately took it off and have given it up when dudes spend the night... hey it is what it is -- and no we're not together anymore!.. hence... "dudes"!!!!!
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I would laugh......cause that shyt was funny.............and I hope I don't have to read through a bunch of "how disrespectful and insensitive the comment was"....for those of you that are going to go there, I say in advance, lighten up and thicken your damn skin.....cause if that look was cute homegirl would wear that shyt out in the streets.
Oh wow. I think I would have cracked on him and said it would have been impossible or gotten up and left (depends on the relationship). First of all I believe that a man will love you- flaws and all. That remark was very insensitive, harsh actually. Women are most vunerable in times that we have taken off the public layers. Maybe she was too comfortable but she must have felt like it was okay. Every night for 8 months and she couldn't be without her front?? Sounds like he's not the one for her. Scarf and glasses in the bed don't make you ugly.
lol, lol, lol funny. I would laugh too, because it's always sweet in the beggining, you look good, he looks good then bam... you get comments like that one. If it wasn't that comment, then it would have been something else.
I would tell him, "NOTHING, YOU'RE DOING A GREAT JOB WITHOUT MY HELP..."
That is funny, cuz that's me. You may see me cute for bed a few times but BELIEVE me you get introduced to the scarf & glasses. If you can handle it GETA STEPPN!!
LMAO!! My scarf & glasses are my friends til the end like CHUCKY! LMAO!!!
I am going to ride with dude, there was nothing insensitive about what he said. As WOMEN stop sending you damn represenatives and be U. I don't want to see the scarf, but I can take that one on the chin, before long its eyeglasses, noxema, she passing gas and burping.
HELL Naw, nip it in the bud!!! She need to go to bed as fabulous as the day I met her. If I am insensitive OOH the HELL well... Next thing U know she 75 pounds heavier than when U met her it never ends : ) LMAO
u know what Ron, ur full of it...because you wear the same rag on ur head when ur going to sleep.....DO NOT make me go there!
I guess I'm too mean. My ass would have left. You have to accept all of me. It's funny how a man can demand what you should look like. Hell, I want my man to look like Idris Elba every night-but that's impossible. If you have a problem with slipping into comfortable gear then the Hell with you.
Kris, my scarf is pretty unlike yours. I said I could tolerate the scarf, but all the others things are a deal breaker!!! So I think U need to Korrect ya self, Now What : )
Umm I'm gonna have 2 roll with Ron on this 1- my mother has always said the whole scarf thing is tacky and that only grandma's wear a "head tie" (haha that's what she said hahaha) and d@mn if my grandma doesn't have 1 so u ladies in the scarf committee may want 2 marinate on that bc there is a difference btwn comfortable and no effort- And sidebar Ron: I really hope u r keeping ur situation tight bc if u aren't I hope ur girl doesn't hit u with the "umm... whats with the gut and butt combo u got going on" cause the 75lbs crack was... yeah it was wrong hahahaaha
i need more info to come to a full conclusion on this one. was the scarf cute at least? was she rockin acute nightie ourfit, some short shorts, a nice tank top, sexy panties...were the glasses cute or did she look like rog from what's happening?
i believe in being comfy, but some folks take shit to the extreme and start to forget they are with someone.
Hilarious!!! Okay...if we don't wear a scarf at night and look tacky, we will look tackier in the daytime with split ends, no curls, and etc. But, a guy gets a few good times of me looking good going to bed, and then its a wrap (literally). I pull out the scarf and glasses. However, I do wear the cute scarf, that doesn't smell like hair--and my glasses are trendy--although a little thick! Lol..That's me, and he'll just have to accept it. I mean, was she at least rocking the cute nightie, boy shorts or something? I don't think it's anything to leave dude over. As I once told my best friend, put earrings (studs) on with the scarf! Dress it up! LMAO!!! This one is funny!!!
I would have said you just did get ugly with that comment. That being said.. the coochie is cute all the time.. so I woulda said get over here!
OK Paula! LMAO... I think it depends on the dynamics of their relationship. If the guy is always telling her how beautiful she is and how lucky he is to have her - then they can laugh about it and move on. On the other hand, if he constantly puts her down and makes her feel less than - then "to the left, to the left..." - kick him to the curb!
This is so funny. Ladies I don't sleep with a scarf on anymore, because the same thing kinda happened to me. Since then, it's been satin pillows. Glasses.. um no! If they aren't stylish what's the point.
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