I know.. I know.. but I do have lots of homegirls...
My homegirl has been seeing this guy but they're not exclusive. She's feeling him and thinks that it's mutual..... they decide to go out together with their groups of friends... u know.. like my man Puff said.. "Tell your friends, to get with my friends (your freinds) And we can be friends Shyt we can do this every weekend (that's right) Aight? Is that aight with you? Yeah... keep bangin" LOL.. and so the night is going great.. drinks are flowing.. peeps are dancing, u know.. allowing the buzz to work its majic.. my homegirl whose in the middle of the dance floor comes toward the table, when she suddenly spots one of her BFFs kissing her boo.
WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
THE OUCTOME:
My homegirl, the optimist, stuck it through. 'N guess what, she and her boo made it official and are dating exclusively. Her BFF is still her BFF -- and she worked that thru. I mean, really, she couldn't forgive and let her go rite?.. btw.. the infraction hasn't happened again.
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If she wasn't pushing back or looking like she wasn't feeling it, then she is DISmissed! Quick, fast and in a hurry. No excuses! Absolutely N-O-N-E. It's a charcter issue at this point. It's ovah... done!
Oh! Him to... ditto on everything.
WOW!!! I can't even tell you!
I would probably confront them and curse them out!! ...then I would just leave and not speak to either one of them! Trifflin' ass bytches!!
ditto!!!! this is just a no-no i dont care how deep in a buzz u r umm i would dead both of them especially if she didnt come up swinging after the kiss hahaha
Taie, just leave? What about your famous, Biatch line? lmao...After spilling drinks all over the both of them and cursing them out, I would probably be forced to leave the spot. Well, that's how I would it to play in head...Either way, she would no longer be my friend and he would no longer be my man. End of story!
I don't care how good of a friend someone suppose to be. You keep your girls from around your man. I can see if you all went out together as couples (everyone has a man). But you don't let your BOO be the only "WOOD" amongst the girls because there's always an undercover HATER. Do yourself a favor forget him and the hell with her. She's not a friend (so what if alcohol was apart of the night)NO FREAKIN EXCUSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I kinda agree with Marleen with making sure its a bunch of couples but u should b able 2 leave your man at the table with a bff and not have 2 worry about them slippin each other the tongue- but she is right haters 2 the left haters to the right!!!
I would have a few choice words and give both of them the middle finger. No communication for either of them from then on out.
Unexcusable.
You know what...you ladies are trying to make me catch a case with this one...what would I do you ask? I would ask myself..."what would remy ma do"...nuff said
Instant ass whippin for somebody!
Maybe, quitely drag him out of the place, then scold him, and then some...
Ike
This is some bullshit....They would both get cut, then cut off. Some shit is unacceptable.
Got my pressure up and I'm cursing...Ooooh chile!
It is obvious to me that this girl was no bff. I would just cut my losses with both of them.
I AGREE WITH MARLENE, NEVER HAVE YOUR WOOD AROUND YOUR "FRIENDS" FUCK THEM BITCHES. WHEN A GUY SAYS HE WANTS TO HANG OUT W/YOUR FRIEND HE'S NOT GETTING A GOOD PERSPECTIVE W/YOU AND WANTS TO OBSERVE HOW YOU ACT WHEN YOU GO OUT W/YOUR "FRIENDS." OR HE JUST WANTS TO SEE HOW YOUR FRIENDS LOOK LIKE TO MAKE A HIT-OOPS!
CUT THEM THE FUCK OFF AND LEARN FROM THIS MISTAKE. ONLY GO OUT W/COUPLES NOT BITCHES TO SEE HOW MUCH PAPER YOUR "WOOD" HAS!
I'm with EVELYN and also I would find a Heineken bottle & cut them like a true Jamaican!! buyaka
I'll get right to the point. People need to stop playing the victim and understand (and accept) the consequences of their decisions, indeed the consequences of their lifestyles.
From what we were told, this woman and man were not exclusive and what that means in adult, real world terms is, "I like you enough to screw you but I don't love you and am not willing to even pretend to be committed. I want to screw you and that person over there, too."
In this situation, the man was not wrong. He simply took advantage of an opportunity. He was honest about his unwillingness to be faithful. The fact that he was willing to hit on the BFF is a clear signal that there is no potential for a good relationship. His actions spoke volumes so nothing needs to be said to him. He's history.
The situation with the BFF is tricky. Not knowing her history makes it difficult for me to judge but here are a few thoughts:
If she has a history of sleeping with her friends' guys and if she knew that the couple were not exclusive, then it should have been expected (and too bad that she was put in such a situation). If she's the "next bitch" then she's capable of anything and that will never change, friendship or not. If this is a true friendship, then the BFF obviously brings something to the table that is wonderful enough to overshadow the fact that she is promiscuous and not loyal when it comes to men.
On the other hand, if this was totally out of character, then there needs to be a discussion about what happened to get things to the point where the BFF and the guy were kissing. It could have been alcohol, drugs or a combination of things. We expect our friends to be loyal, even if our men aren't.
At the end of the day, I hope that the offended woman will question herself about the choice she made to participate in an "open" relationship and ask herself if it's really worth it.
So what would I do? I'd just get over it.
umm Anonymous with the dissertation on why it went wrong and the "open relationship" umm u sound a lil angry there mayb this happened 2 u.. I was waitin 4 u 2 end your comment with "sister-girl I have a book u should read, it will change ur life" hahaha
That's a damn shame...not only can't you find a good man anymore...you can't even rent a friend! Two things...
1st - If you had any reservations about persuing a relationship with this jokester...NOW YOU KNOW!!!
2nd - She is triflin'...just triflin'...especially if you confided in her by letting her know you was feelin' him.
In conclusion - BA-BYE...to both those losers!
First of all to hell with him, I'd curse him out a lil and then it's ovah. As far as my supposedly BFF,she will literally be kicked to the FKN curb cuz a true BFF wouldn't even entertain talkn to dude if he came on to her & wouldn't even consider coming on to him! Believe me I have a BFF and that was a pact we made as teenagers. Don't talk to anybody the other had interest in or had been with! the pact is still in effect 25yrs later!!
Wow there are some lines that once they are crossed u can never go back. If we are friends or we have ever been friends, anyone that I am currently dating or have dated in the past is of limitis to U.
I see that several people mentioned that this ISH is disrespectfull... These people did not have enough respect to even wait to homegurl was not around. I am seriously getting kicked outta the club maybe arrested!!! U gone respect me : )
Yeah it is good that dude showed his Azz early in the relationship, now she can kut that zero and keep it moving. The snake that she called a friend if she is this bold to tongue dude down in ya space this is not the first time that she has done this. Call her over for drinks and give her twenty tablets of exlax : - )
I don't do sloppy seconds and neither should your friends, especially if they are a REAL friend!! The guy gets booted ASAP and your friend gets the "we can't be friends, cuz you a trifling b*tch" talk and its a wrap. keep ya friends close, but ya man even closer. trust no one when it comes to stuff like that. PERIOD.
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