The players: Samantha and Mark
Samantha is a graduate from Columbia University with her BA in marketing. Right after school she landed a job at a Fortune 500 marketing firm making above poverty level $$ but knows there's more to come. She wants to go back to school but its so expensive. In the meantime... Sam goes out one nite to the club and meets Mark, a well to do football player who plays for the NY Giants.
O. M. G!!
After 4 years of dating Sam quits her job to open her own boutique in Manhattan.. of course w/ Mark's help. Her life has changed dramatically. She is well known in LV, Gucci and Dior as she shops there all the time. She jets off all over the world and follows him to away games whenever her schedule permits. They have several residences, tons of hot cars and get invited to ALL the A-list parties. But with the luxuries there is also a lot of pain. He constantly cheats on her, extremely blatant about it and treats her crappy from time to time.
Damn she loves her new life and who the hell wants to go bac to 9-5 forever.
WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
THE OUTCOME
She's still with him... she enjoys G-L-A-M-O-R-O-U-S
12 comments:
I would not wittingly expose myself to all the possible STD's. I've seen the sex chains and I don't want to be connected to the women he's sleeping with and their partners. Remember Robin Given's mother and Dave Winfield? Remember Michael Vick and that random chic? I know how to get by on a little so I would let this guy go and wait for better.
She should give it like 6-12 months, get on her GRIND, establish her firm FULLY, and make herself known for her work, get old boy to give her a large $$ gift, and bounce on his ass.
Then, he will have set her ass up, with a job, money, and a li'l shine.
If he wants to act like a shit, then she should write a tell all book about him. LOL!
Once you are on the scene, you can get another dude.
I would stay with him. I'd be doing my own thing if he's doin his wn thing. wanna know y ladies, cos i'd rather b wit a guy that i can get soemthing out of than a reg. guy that still doin me dirtee and i aint getting nothin outta of it. but i wont stand for him treating me like shyt.
Y'all ladies r funny as hell. Get yo own shyt. That's y he will continue treating u like shyt. He got u rite wehre he want u. We always do.
damn maurice. i'm going to have to disagree with you. why shouldn't i get all the things i can out of a relationship that i work so hard in? all of you are the same anyway, whether you are on the block or sitting behind your big desk. as far as i am concerned i will go for mine with the dude who can provide me with the most. i say stick it out with him. and like evelyn said get what you can, save your $ and then break out. kim porter style!!!!!
Instead of shopping at Louie, Gucci, etc all the time, take some of that money he throws your way and starting stacking your/his chips. Start networking and make friends at those FAB parties, so you'll get your own invites. When he does leave for the next chic(and he will), atleast you'll be finanically set and fab thanks to him!
WOW! This is a difficult one for me. I agree with anonymous (1st comment)...STD's are not a game!! But on the other hand, I agree with anonymous and anonymous (the last 2 comments before mine)...stack the chips and establish yourself in the game, make your own money, then drop his azz!! Make sure to double up on the protection though!
anonymous #3...ditto all the way!...make ur own damn way!
Life can't be that great if he constantly cheats on her. If I was her, I would have gotten my graduate degree on him and moved the hell on. I mean, how much should she continue to take because she's living the fab-life. She needs to remember that her fab-life only last as long as he lets it. So hopefully, girlfriend has banked some on that money. Or have some items worth pawning.
She's in the game so she KNOW the rules... Now if she allows him to purchase her items in his name stupid!!! All gifts of homes and automobiles and anything of substance need to be in her name so when he decides to leave her, gets cut, or retires she is straight. If this dude is STUPID enough to sponsor her she is not at fault for taking the money.
Although, know that if dude is your meal ticket, then he feels that he can do what ever he wants to do because he can!!! He ownes the relationship so he feels my money my rules!!! If you are with a dude with money, and you are not setting your own hustle up, than when he gets funky and you stay then you own that...
Maurice is kinda correct if she was making her own loot she would not feel she had to stay and take his ISH... If they were equals he probably would not be so blantant with the disrespect. Yet he can becuase he owns her!!!
this chick better wake the hell up.
is she married to this dude? Either way make your money and make your move she has a boutique she better use it to make her own money cause she's not living her own fab life she just getting in on the strength of this ball player.That will come to an end when he gets tired of her.
If she's smart and has some business sense she won't have to go back to 9-5 geez where is this girl's confidence......oh that's right this ball player is probably slowly eating away at it. Get out why you can it's not gonna get better. You can't turn a ho into a housewife and you can't turn a mack into mr. right,lmao... ahhhh y'all like dat!!!!!
So Tahira, how is she different from Kim???...since you're PRO KIM PORTER and all????
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