I have an ex that I always describe to my friends.. the sex was so good.. I'd let u do him... (I wonder)... but 4 real... so there's this guy (ok guys.. it's one of u this time.. but ladies this definitely applies to us)... and he has an ex-girlfriend for a few years. The relationship ended.. doesn't matter the reason... but they were together, in love.. and then u know how the story goes. Both of them move on. A few years later, his boy -- his best friend -- runs into her.. she's looking so damn good (u know how we do ladies, we get better wit age) and so is he... they go for a drink.. (I mean it's a nice day -- strollin in the city.. saturday.. y not?) Convo's good.. essentially they end up at her house and it's on... he wants to see how this goes.. but this is his boy's ex.. WHAT WOULD U DO?
May 14, 2007
WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
Well he couldn't do it.... for years he was hittin it.. I mean, she's a pretty girl. He'd take her places, you know, dinner, theater, even to an event held at his firm (yep he's got corporate dough), but he couldn't do it... he gave her lots of false hope.. but nah.. like you said.. he kept thinking of his boy beatin it and couldn't get over it! DAMN
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HELL NO! I don't care how long it's been. It's never a good situation. How do you expect to be friends after that? How do you expect to talk to ur boy about her? Nope! Not a good look.
Hmm now am i supposed 2 think from the guys point of view? well it would b wrong... d@mn this is a hard 1 bc if they r both feelin each other and the chick and ur boy have moved on then why not? but if i was the best friend and i found out i know i would b a lil pissed off. hmm this is an intersting 1, but if i had 2 take it from the chicks view i would b like "go for it" ol dude will b aight hahaha!!
This is definitely a hard "what would you do." As a female I would be pissed if my BFF dated my ex! And I am not sure that I would be able to get over it (let me say that I wouldn't date my BFF's ex either). However, as a chick....if I hit off with my ex's BF, (years later of course), I would go for it. Guys get over things like that, don't they? They may fight about it but then work it out over a game. LOL...So I guess I agree with Sally...what a double standard!
I do not care how long its been since they broke up. You never EVER EVER sleep with friends. Just out of respect for yourself.
I was in this particular situation, but I nipped it in the bud. The friend that approached me didn't see a problem with it, but like Marlene said I Have Respect for myself so I didn't even put myself in that situation! But had I agreed to it the friend didn't have a problem with it......"To Each His Own"
There is nothing wrong with getting with your friends ex. I think you should ask the friend first though. I believe in being honest with myself about a relationship and if it's truly over
between me and the ex I would not have a problem with it. If I did have a problem with it I would say so and hope my friend respects my wishes. As for don't think it's disrespect at all, we're not talking about some teenager who sleeps with "Tay Tay" then breaks up with him and sleeps with his boy "Day Day" after 2 weeks. We're talking about grown men and women. Correction..grown women more than likely the men can't handle it......'cause they never grow up
um it depends if yall just freakin off or yall like feelin each other like that to take it somewhere else. either way there are codes 2 live by and one code says NEVER date/sex an EX's BFF whether u r a man or a woman. guys be frontin. most times they are on some we dont love them hoes shyt but really and truly if they did at one point love that girl they would want 2 fight their BFF for sleepin with that chick. i mean if it was lighweight then it wouldnt matter.
i mean ol boy could tell his BFF what he did after the fact if it was on some freakin off stuff but if its not then he should get permission from his friend.
Hell 2 Da Naw can my boi ever touch anyone that I have ever loved. Anyone that I consider a friend Know the DAMN rules. Even if the breakup was my fault he betta keep his grimey paws to himself. The most important word in the entire story was LOVED, If I loved her it will never be OK!!!
I will humor the blog, what if they date and it is starts to get real. It is a guarantee that he is not mature enough to handle the fact that I was intimate with her.
Every time we are all together it will be mad ICKY! If I look for a second to long he thinks that I am imagining the nasty bids that she use to do for me ( which is probably dead on : ) and now he is kind of angry that I know what his gurl looks like naked. Men are not hardwired to be this mature, it just will not work...
I guess as a man you would have to deal with the possibilities that your "boy" will want your ex. but he should keep his distance, because somebody is going to get their ass beat!
M
This doesn't make sense...... he's hittin it for years and can't do what...........hope this dude is not a friend of yours.he dounds like an idiot
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